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You never really know what you're going to find in downtown Las Vegas. It could be Elvis or it could be a cross-dressing street performer. Finding the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with? Seemingly not likely. Until a first date brought us to see a band we had never heard of. This is the story of Marissa and Michael.

Marissa is a registered nurse who found her way to Las Vegas by way of Gilroy, California. Unsure of what she wanted to go to school for, she ultimately graduated from San Jose State with a degree in Public Relations. The idea of working in the city was appealing. She had always dreamt of a life in New York City. The job itself was not where she wanted to be. She was stuck in a career where every morning started off with the stress of putting together an unwrinkled "business casual" outfit, followed by 1.5 hours of stop-and-go traffic to go to a job she wasn't passionate about. One morning, she found herself at a stoplight pondering her future. At this stoplight, she witnessed two girls crossing the street in hospital scrubs and thought to herself "Those look comfy!". Fast forward two years later and Marissa can be found sporting those comfy scrubs at Spring Valley Hospital, where she finds her cup is full when she is caring for people in their most vulnerable state.

Michael's mother was a fire department dispatcher, his father was retired from the Air Force and his brother was a firefighter so when it came time to figure out what he wanted to do after high school, he decided to follow in his family's footsteps and joined the Air Force as a firefighter. Wanting to be closer to his father after his time in the military and not liking Florida much, he made his way to Las Vegas where he has worked for the City of Las Vegas as a firefighter/ paramedic for the past 9 years.

June 4th, 2022, the start of us. What started off as an awkward beginning to a first date has blossomed into a relationship filled with a lot more awkward and beautiful moments. From the first " I love you" to the moment we were engaged. We've never left each other's side and in some ways, it feels as if that first date has never stopped.

We bonded over our love for decorating for the holidays, theme parks, and West Side Story, a musical both our NY native fathers introduced to us. While we do enjoy the DINK life (dual income, no kids), it's our dream to get married and start a family. Our journey to achieve just that leads us to December 8, 2024, in New York, a date that couldn't come sooner! We cannot wait to have all our closest family and friends by our side as we vow to love one another, decorate for many holidays to come, plan future Disney/Universal trips, and enrich our future children's lives by introducing them to the great works of Leonard Bernstein.

In the meantime, you can follow us on Instagram where you'll find stories filled with our dogs, Disney, and DIY projects which include building onto our infamous Halloween/Christmas villages. @marissagomez @burgoliscious

PLEASE JOIN US TO CELEBRATE OUR WEDDING ON

DECEMBER 8, 2024, 2 PM
SAINT MARY OF THE ISLE
THE MANSION AT GLEN COVE

COCKTAIL HOUR (5PM), RECEPTION (6PM) AND AFTER PARTY (10PM) TO FOLLOW
FORMAL DRESS CODE

THE CEREMONY - LONG BEACH, NY

Saint Mary of the Isle

Starts at 2 pm

COCKTAIL HOUR & THE RECEPTION

The Mansion at Glen Cove

Cocktail hour 5 pm, Reception 6 pm

THE AFTER PARTY

The Speakeasy Attic at The Mansion

following the reception at 10pm

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LaGuardia Airport or JFK Airport

both are equidistant to The Mansion

STAY WITH US

The Mansion at Glen Cove

Luxury King and Luxury Double rooms have been blocked off at a special rate of $210 for our wedding guests. To secure this rate, call The Mansion at 646-518-8771 to book. Preference of a King or Double are first come first serve.

ROCKEFELLER CENTER

Rockefeller Center sits in the heart of midtown Manhattan, both in terms of its physical location and its prominent place in the city's folklore and culture. Whether you want to check out a performance on the plaza outside the TODAY show, visit the Christmas tree, or practice your best moves on the ice skating rink, you're in for an iconic, Christmas staple experience.

9/11 MEMORIAL AND MUSEUM

Located at the World Trade Center in New York City, the 9/11 Memorial Museum tells the story of 9/11 through media, narratives, and a collection of monumental and authentic artifacts, presenting visitors with personal stories of loss, recovery, and hope.

CATCH A BROADWAY SHOW

Seeing a Broadway show is a special experience and one that is exclusive to New York City. A Broadway show's costumes, sets, songs, and stories are the stuff of dreams.

American Museum of Natural History

The American Museum of Natural History spans four city blocks just across from Central Park. All aspects of the natural world are represented here, there's an entire hall dedicated to marine life—including a life-size model of a blue whale. The crown jewel is the dinosaur floor, with an imposing Tyrannosaurus Rex skeleton that dominates the room.

CENTRAL PARK

To get that Nora Ephron New York experience, you have no choice but to take a stroll through Central Park while in the city. As you step off the crowded sidewalks of 59th Street into a mass of green, you’ll hardly realize what lies before you: 693 acres of man-made gardens, meadows, forests, and hillsides.

REGISTRY

Your presence at our wedding is present enough! However, for friends and family who have been asking for gift ideas, we’ve created an online registry!